For the first 22 years of my life,
I lived in the great state of Ohio.
But as with all things familiar,
I grew bored there and set my sights on something exciting and unknown.
I left the Buckeye state for a short stint in Texas
and an even shorter one in Tennessee
before landing in North Carolina for several years.
{I'll take a pass on how in the world I ended up in Florida for now
and just be grateful for the dear,dear friends
that have come as a result of my 7 years there.}
To those that have never been to here,
I think there's quite a mixed bag of misconceptions.
Ohio is considered to be the "Midwest."
That's just weird to me,
because it's way closer to the east coast and the Atlantic Ocean
than anything remotely west.
Even central.
My Ohio is mostly rolling countryside.
It has a few bigger cities that are really
just large towns with decent-sized suburbs.
It is comprised of mostly blue collar folks
who wave to you even if they don't know you
and who would give you the shirt off of their back
if you were cold or naked.
Or maybe even just because you like it.
They are simple people,
never pretending to be something that they are not.
As I step my way out of the darkest season of my life,
I am surprised by gratefulness for my roots.
And ashamed to say that for many years,
I wanted to be more than simple.
I didn't like that I was from somewhere so predictable.
I didn't like that I was from somewhere so predictable.
But after growing up, experiencing life and pain and brokenness,
I realize the beauty of simplicity.
There is something undeniable and irreplaceable
about the place where you were raised.
It has snuck on me during this visit like a sentimental sniper.
Maybe it was the snapshot of my little one,
(who looks eerily like me as a wee one these days,)
or the familiar voices of multiple high-school friends
or the vision of my family members a gathered around my mom's pond
All I can say is that my soul found rest here.
It usually does when I come to visit my family.
But this time it's multiplied by a million.
I have never been able to appreciate so much the place that birthed me.
The people that birthed me.
Thanks Ohio.
You and your people really are pretty awesome.
You and your people really are pretty awesome.
I moved to Ohio in middle school and ended up back here with my husband when he went to medical school. I was in a small town the first time - and now we are in Columbus - but it is just as you say. Face value and not much else. Kindness and simplicity.
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